Dearest Julie....

I am writing on behalf of my daughter, Tara, my beloved grandson, Tyler and for myself, as well. I will share the message with her. Please send words to assist them at this time. And if there is anything, I can do to help them, please tell me also. I know all is according to plans, but the situation feels desperate to me and to her. Tara is on the edge financially with ability to pay rent, potential loss of car, etc. Tyler is acting out and was suspended from kindergarten for putting his hands on another child. I assist, love, pray, as best I can....please tell us what is going on for them and steps that she can take...she feels as if God does not care and my beloved Tyler used to be so light and happy and now is split...thank you, dear Julie for helping us in this way. My loving gratitude -- Deb

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Dear Beloved One(s), for you are indeed beloved by God.

The situation that you are dealing with regarding financial hardship, instability, and insecurity is not of your own making, but rather part of the current of this time that is undoing old structures upon which life depended in order to make way for the new. While things 'come apart,' it appears that there is no control over anything and no way to maintain a family structure or ensure that desperate measures will not need to be taken. This is the conclusion that one would come to looking at the 'facts' of the situation rather than the underlying structural motivation.

Tara's income loss and the threat to the security of her family which is causing anxiety for her and for Tyler is based on a lack of awareness of the forward movement that this is trying to create or make happen. As the old structure that financial stability was based upon folds, a new consciousness of what the center of life needs to be about has to take its place. This consciousness requires thinking about an entirely new direction that may open up or become possible if one does not feel reliant on maintaining things in the same way that they have been maintained. Tara is facing this challenge and you, Deborah, have faced this challenge yourself many times over.

In the absence of stability and the absence of any clear direction, one has to open one's heart to Divine guidance related to something new and unexpected that may appear as an unprecedented solution to the existing problems. That is the meaning of this time. A radical shift is trying to happen and it can only happen through the dismemberment of old ways of being in order that something new and unforeseen can take their place.

Prayer and spiritual anchoring are important in these times for Tara, and for Tyler, too, since he has to learn and has come to learn the balance between fear and trust within himself and needs to let go of control in order to let the Divine manifest. If Tara were less anxious, Tyler would be less anxious, and there would be less acting out. For all concerned, the emphasis needs to be upon trust and upon opening to new possibilities that involve a life-change.

You have extensive experience learning to trust the spiritual realms dear one, and so you are in a good position to share your learnings with your daughter and grandson. They, indeed, have entered your life as biological family in order that you could all learn to deal with these issues, and so that you would be in a position to help them through your own understanding and experience.

You will be able to offer comfort but the choice to trust must come from within Tara herself since she has to define her own relationship with the Divine and with the flow of life as it changes.

Many blessings, beloved one. If I can be of additional help, let me know. Julie