I am married with a wonderful wife.However, I am sharing a spiritual and an enriching relationship with another married woman who is well connected to the spiritual plane.My name is Narad and I was born on 1 December 1956 .My wife Devina is born on 1 August 1961.The other woman who is called Nazeema is born on 21 November 1972.I would appreciate your guidance on this situation. -- Narad

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Dear One,

The question you are raising is one of values, namely, what is the central value in your life concerning love, relationships, and God. If you are truly committed to a spiritual life, then you must spiritualize your relationships and not leave some to be spiritual and others to be less spiritual. You are, as many do, compartmentalizing your life because you are not certain how to live it any other way. You have your intimate spiritual connection in one place and your more grounded sense of family, warmth, nurturing and protection in another place. This divides you in two just as it separates one relationship from another. You have concerns about this because you know that your heart is divided and are wondering if it should be.

There is no general answer to this question beloved one. Your own relationship with your wife is a commitment that you undertook a long time ago, long before you incarnated into this present lifetime, and so your feelings for her run deep. Yet she appears to you to be limited in certain respects and so you are seeking what you wish for in the way of communion elsewhere. This splitting is a practical thing to do, but it does not teach you the way of true spirituality which is to plumb the depths of intimacy and commitment to the fullest extent that the heart is capable of in relation to one's chosen partner in life.

You need not let go of your friendship with other spiritual soulmates of whom there can be both men and women. The problem here is that you are feeling your heart divided in the measure of intimacy with which you are sharing yourself with your wife and your soul-friend, and so you are troubled by it. Consider these things beloved one, and ask for guidance from your higher self. The way you are meant to take will be shown to you. Namaste.

Julie Redstone