Dear Julie, does the man i love feel the same way or will it never happen? -- Vicky

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Dear One,

Spiritual guidance and spiritual growth helps each soul focus on what is going on inside, allowing each one to feel secure, safe, and at peace, no matter what happens on the outside. This includes the subject of relationships, where prediction is less helpful than being able to be with the present moment and to make decisions based on your own inner truth within each moment. In addition, prediction is not necessarily possible within relationships because of the way in which free will operates so that each being can make ultimate choices about their life.

Deciding about how to be in a relationship or whether to be in it at all is an important part of growth. Such decisions are based on a complex set of factors, all having to do with being conscious and weighing the messages from your own heart. Out of this awareness, one decides to either take the risk or not take the risk of allowing the unknown to unfold with respect to another. This unknown may either bring greater closeness or create greater separation. The heart must tell you how to weigh the risks involved and for how long to wait. Your connection with Spirit will also offer you inner guidance and clarity as things unfold concerning how best to hold things.

Blessings, dear one. Within yourself you have the means to know what is best to do in this situation. Julie Redstone