Dear Julie,

my dad is very ill in intensive care and the doctors and nurses are preparing us for the worse, could you please give us a blessing and wish for hime to get better. dad is to young to go yet and he needs to see his granddaugter grow up. (she loves him so much) many thanks Julie. I look forward to hearing from you. hayley xxx

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Dearest Hayley,

At these times of sadness and possible loss it is always important to open the heart fully to love in its depth and expanse so that you may feel it carrying you. There is a depth of love for your Dad and wishing him to recover and get well. There is love for your daughter and wishing her to have a relationship with your father. There is love for your own self which does not wish to experience this loss, and there is love for God which wishes to do and feel what is right according to Divine Will.

The heart is very complex with many rooms to hold different feelings. In one room can be a prayer for your father's recovery, in another room can be a prayer for help to let him go, in still another room can be a wish that all should proceed according to Divine Will and according to the wishes of your Dad's own soul, for the soul chooses the time of death according to its own purposes.

Many feelings come together at the time of a loved one's passing, and so the prayer I offer to you is this:

May my Dad recover so that we may have him with us longer if it is Your Will and the will of his soul. And if it must be that he leave this plane, then may we who remain be helped to let him go and enabled to assist him on his journey forward. You might also add to this a prayer that you be helped to instill the memory of your father in your daughter if it is now his time to pass on.

Blessings, dearest one. May the soul of your Dad find peace and comfort at whatever point he makes his transition, and may those who remain behind find hope and upliftment as well. Julie Redstone