I received a picture from lady that state it was her and she was a completely different lady the lady i met was a little over weight two tone of color of hair and a little of dental work needed i told her I told her I didn't care how she look because i felled in love with her not how she look but because she lied to me and betrust me I push her away can I forgiver her. please pray for me which way should I go... David

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Dear One,

The heart has many rooms in it to hold the different ways that love expresses itself. In one room is 'falling-in-love', in another is kindness, in another is tenderness, in another is forgiveness. Each of these qualities has to do with love.

If you feel love for this soul whom you met without seeing, then you will be able to understand that a person can feel so uncertain about their appearance attracting love even while the desire for love and relationship is very strong, that they feel driven to falsify a picture so that there will be a response on the other end. This does not justify lying. It only makes it more understandable.

Your heart's truth must tell you whether your love is strong enough to forgive. If it is, then you can let the relationship grow and strive to create a future with your loved one built on truth and honesty. There are many times in a life built on love where forgiveness of another is called for. This can be a beginning. Blessings - Julie Redstone