I found your site quite by accident. Right now I am in a state of confusion...concerning my realtionships. I know what I want but sometimes, ok always I am afraid of who I might hurt. Also I think I have been growing more spiritually aware lately..i do not know if this is in realtion to my realtionships with people in general or if it is because I have come to that point in my life where I know there is more than just work and family etc...Do u think I am heading in the right direction? So confused... -- Judy

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Dear One,

Your life is changing as your awareness opens up, and things do and will look different to you, including your relationships with others. This is inevitable, as your consciousness is taking in greater light at this time, and as your heart is also opening and wanting more love in your life and more honesty in general.

The problem for one who is changing is frequently one of adapting inner changes to outer circumstances so that relationships can either be let go of, or so that new conditions can come into existing relationships which will permit growth to take place. In relation to the latter, courage is often needed in order to allow each relationship to incorporate the new. Without this incorporation, it is difficult to grow, since it involves repressing or denying the very real changes that are taking place within the self.

At this time, dear one, you need to believe in yourself - to believe that you can use your expanding awareness to learn where to go, whom to be with, and how to speak to your loved ones so that they can gain a sense of the changes that are taking place within you.

A spiritual anchor such as regular prayer, alignment, or medition will be very helpful at this time. It will allow you to feel more deeply centered in yourself and to access guidance from within. This, in turn, will help you know which direction to go in and will decrease the amount of confusion you are feeling at present.

There is nothing wrong with you, dear one. You are growing and trying to sort out new perceptions so that you can make new decisions in life. Blessings. Julie Redstone